— If the meds were switched, then when I got them mixed up, I… I accidentally switched them back, so… I gave Harlan… — The correct doses, yes. But not accidentally.
KNIVES OUT (2019)dir. Rian Johnson
I love this moment, not just because of the twist, but also because Marta has been dying the whole movie with not only fear and grief, but guilt at having caused the death of her patient, her friend.
For Benoit to take the time to reassure that this was not her fault, in way that is so kind and so clear, was lovely.
“You are a good nurse.” You can tell when he says that the he truly understands what is paining her the most. Just beautiful.
I have so much love for this film, and for the moment following this where Benoit tells her that, if Harlan had listened to her, he would still be alive. The blame is taken from her, in the kindest possible way, by someone she trusts. After all the goalpost moving and ‘ah, gotcha!’ and obsession with spoilers in cinema over the last decade, with characterisation abandoned and plotlines left unresolved, knives out is a kind film. It isn’t obsessed with tricking you or catching you out, just wants you along for the ride
I love Benoit Blanc in this scene so much. I mean, he’s a great character throughout the film, but this was the moment I thought, “I will watch as many movies about this character as Rian Johnson and Daniel Craig choose to make.”
I am so sick of the trend of making intelligent male characters callous. And despite his veneer of slow Southern affability, Benoit Blanc is almost diabolically clever. So throughout the movie, I assumed he was toying with Marta, enjoying her discomfort because he found her suspicious. I thought he was another brilliant, heartless detective in the BBC Sherlock vein. But look at him in this scene. He practically has tears in his eyes because he’s so moved by Marta’s goodness, and I love him. I love this movie. I can’t wait for the sequels.
cant believe women are expected to like cook and birth entire children and be professional workers and fit a beauty standard. like i am not going to do any of that lol
aries: if you have been putting *work* into a money situation, which may seem grim, keep calm if it appears to become… even more grim? this week, with the eclipse. you actually have really good money astrology at this time, but patience is the key. don’t give up.
taurus: the new moon eclipse of this eclipse season was teetering on the threshold of your sign but this week’s full moon eclipse occurs in your relationships house, with the sun fully ensconced within your sign. so yes, it’s a big one. and yes, it involves a special someone.
gemini: mercury is half done with its retrograde but there’s also how an eclipse in your daily routines and pluto backtracking after his fresh entrance into your 9th house. so, it’s crazy out there in both small and big ways. but no one handles changes better than you do.
cancerians: people do see you as someone who loves to stay in the nest so to speak. by the end of this week venus enters your sign and you can enjoy doing so in style. she graces you with extra charisma as well, so use it wisely in these strange times. it is especially useful on the heels of that full moon eclipse!
leo: this lunar eclipse is in fixed signs, quite possibly squaring some of your natal points. and being that it involves your natal ruler the sun, and what with plutonic upheaval afoot, it is likely not an easy time. so go out of your way to take things easy. rest if needed, guilt-free.
virgo: be cautious about someone who might be described as a business partner, especially if you also have romantic links or interests involving that person or those people. i do not like to issue dire warnings but there is, amid all the astrology of this week, a chance of some kind of dishonesty/deceit/even betrayal in that arena.
libra: you do have a lot going on all week so watch those transit posts but perhaps what you feel the most will be pluto going retrograde in your 5th house. at first this will feel like you’re getting flipped from rom com mode to soap opera tragedy mode. it’ll even out later on, especially after venus settles into cancer, where she enters by the weekend.
scorpio: you have two major astrological events to watch this week. first, your ruler pluto takes a retrograde before even reaching the first degree of aquarius. second, there is a full moon lunar eclipse with the moon in your sign. all this spells upheaval. it’s phoenix season for the scorpion folks.
sagittarius: it’s hard times for many, but for you it’s mostly just strange times. in fact things may flow so quickly and easily as to seem actually rather suspicious. it’s true you can’t trust anything to turn out according to plan at this time, but you can trust it’ll work out somehow.
capricorn: pluto did finally give you sort of a break. now it goes retrograde. it’ll be in your sign for a few months again, then, and after that? never again in your lifetime. all really is transformed and renewed.
aquarius: pluto good retrograde in your sign before really getting settled AND there’s a fixed sign full moon eclipse squaring off with whatever you have going on in the middle of aquarius natally. these are not easy times but they ARE impactful and they do have the ability to really lay a nice foundation for what is to come.
pisces: it is an underappreciated fact about pisceans that you have houdini-like escapist abilities. this week, that can be tempting and/or useful. but try to make sure nothing will backfire on you if you go that escape artist route. it sometimes pays off and often doesn’t.
In Astrology, the 7th House represents relationships and partnerships, both personal and professional. It represents one’s ability to form and maintain meaningful connections with others, including romantic relationships, business partnerships, and close friendships.
💜Aries:If the 7th House is in Aries, the native may have a desire for independence and autonomy in relationships. They may approach relationships with a sense of competitiveness, seeking to assert their dominance and individuality. They may be impulsive in love and may not shy away from confrontation. On the flip side, they may struggle with committing to one person and may feel restless in long-term relationships. They may need a partner who can keep up with their energy and enthusiasm, and who supports their independence.
💖Taurus: The 7th House in Taurus suggests that relationships and partnerships are important to the individual and stability and security are key values in their relationships. They value commitment and loyalty in their relationships and may have a strong sense of responsibility towards their partner. They tend to be dependable and affectionate partners, who take their time in developing relationships.
They may have a tendency to hold onto relationships, even if they are not fulfilling, due to their need for security and comfort. They may also value material stability and comfort in their relationships, which can sometimes become a priority over emotional fulfillment. They tend to approach relationships with a practical and grounded perspective, seeking stability and reliability in their partners.
💜Gemini:The 7th House in Gemini indicates that the native is attracted to people who are communicative, mentally stimulated, and curious. They value intellectual conversation, witty banter, and lighthearted humor in their relationships. They are also likely to enjoy partners who are adaptable and able to keep up with their fast pace.
In terms of partnerships, this placement suggests a desire for a flexible, open-minded, and mentally engaging relationship. The native may be drawn to individuals who have a wide range of interests, as well as a desire to learn and explore new things together. However, this placement also highlights the need for balance in relationships, as the native may become easily bored if their partner is not as intellectual or communicative as they are.
💖Cancer: People with Cancer in the 7th House place a strong emphasis on emotional security and a deep connection with their partners. They often value home and family life and prioritize the well-being of those close to them. However, they can also struggle with trust issues, seeking a partner who can provide the emotional support and comfort they crave. This position can indicate a need for stability and security in relationships, and a tendency towards codependency.
💜Leo:The 7th House in Leo represents a strong desire for a partner who is confident, dramatic, and attention-seeking. The native values the role of the partnership in their life, and is drawn to individuals who have a strong sense of self, creativity, and charisma. This placement can indicate a need for recognition and adoration from the partnership, and a willingness to put on a show in public to showcase the strength of the relationship. In relationships, these individuals value partnership over independence and are often willing to put aside their own needs to focus on their partner’s wants and desires.
However, they also require a strong sense of respect and loyalty in return. Communication is key in this placement, as the native will want to be able to express themselves creatively and openly with their partner. This placement can indicate a need for balance between the love and attention given and received in a relationship, as well as a desire for a partner who is equally confident and expressive. Overall, this can lead to passionate and dynamic relationships, but also a tendency towards drama and power struggles if the needs for attention and adoration are not met.
💖Virgo: With Virgo ruling this house, the focus is on practicality and rationality in relationships. People with this placement may be particular about the details and qualities they desire in a partner and may strive for stability and security in their relationships. They may also be analytical and critical in their approach to partnerships, striving for perfection and improvement in the relationship. Overall, the 7th House in Virgo emphasizes the importance of communication, responsibility, and practicality in relationships.
💜Libra: A person with their 7th House in Libra is someone who values harmony and balance in their relationships. They tend to be charming, charismatic, and skilled at negotiating and mediating conflicts. They put a lot of effort into finding the right partner and maintaining healthy relationships, and they tend to be attracted to individuals who are equally charming and able to maintain balance and fairness in their interactions.
This person may have a strong desire for peace and stability in their relationships, and they may struggle with a fear of commitment. They may also place a great deal of emphasis on appearances and social status in their relationships, as they tend to seek out partners who are socially well-regarded and maintain a positive image.
💖Scorpio: This placement indicates a deep emotional connection to their partners and a willingness to delve into the shadows and delve into the depths of their own emotions and those of others. They are often very perceptive and intuitive, and they have a strong desire for depth and understanding in their relationships. Scorpio is a fixed sign, and people with this placement are often persistent and determined in their relationships. They are not afraid to confront difficult or uncomfortable issues, and they are willing to work through problems in order to build strong and lasting connections.
However, this placement can also indicate a tendency towards jealousy and control in relationships. People with the 7th House in Scorpio may struggle with trust issues and may be prone to holding onto grudges or seeking revenge. It is important for them to find a healthy balance between their intense emotional connections and their need for control in relationships.
💜Sagittarius:Someone with their 7th House in Sagittarius is often drawn to adventurous, optimistic, and independent partners. They value freedom and exploration in their relationships and are often drawn to people who are open-minded, spontaneous, and full of ideas. This placement indicates a desire for a partner who can expand their horizons and bring excitement into their life. People with this placement are often attracted to partners who are knowledgeable and curious about the world, and who share their love for travel and adventure.
However, this House can also indicate a tendency to make hasty or impulsive decisions when it comes to relationships, leading to instability and a lack of commitment. People with their 7th House in Sagittarius may have trouble committing to one partner, and they may have a tendency to seek out new experiences and relationships before settling down. In general, this placement emphasizes the importance of freedom and growth in relationships, and it suggests that the individual is looking for a partner who can offer a sense of adventure, intellectual stimulation, and excitement.
💖Capricorn:A person with the 7th House in Capricorn is likely to approach relationships in a responsible, practical, and structured manner. They value stability and longevity in their partnerships and are willing to work hard to maintain them. This placement can indicate a desire for a partner who is ambitious, driven, and mature. They are typically attracted to individuals who are reliable and dependable, and they are less likely to get involved in frivolous or casual relationships. This placement can also indicate a tendency towards being too serious in relationships, and a lack of emotional expression. However, they are committed to building lasting and meaningful relationships and are willing to put in the time and effort required to make them successful.
💜Aquarius: A person with their 7th House in Aquarius values unconventional and progressive relationships, they are often drawn to partners who have unique ideas and who challenge the status quo. They value freedom and independence in their partnerships and dislike being tied down by traditional societal expectations. This placement can lead to unconventional partnerships, as they are drawn to partners who are innovative, creative, and who have a free-spirited nature. They believe in equality and fairness in their relationships, and they tend to have a strong sense of friendship and camaraderie with their partners. However, they can sometimes struggle with commitment, as they value their independence so highly.
💖Pisces: A person with their 7th House in Pisces values emotional depth and spiritual connections in their relationships. They are highly intuitive and empathetic, often able to sense the feelings of those around them. This placement can indicate a longing for a perfect soulmate, and a tendency to idealize or romanticize partnerships. They may struggle with boundaries in relationships and can become overly involved or enmeshed with their partners. However, their compassionate and forgiving nature makes them excellent partners, and they are often sought after for their emotional support and understanding.
OBS: If you don’t know what your lilith sign is, just use an online chart calculator (strongly recommend using the ‘Extended Chart Selection’ on astro.com - don’t forget to add 'Lilith’ in 'Additional Objects’). Also, this is an 18+ post so, if you’re under that age, pls don’t read it!!
Lilith in Aries loves a good fight, as they embody the spirit of competition;
There is a particular need to completely dominate every fight they get into and every hater they come across;
There’s a tendency in these natives to turn their anger into action, which can lead to a physical display of anger in the form of physical aggression, affecting everyone and everything in sight and spreading like wildfire (which will most likely be the case for those who don’t have a suitable outlet for their fierce temper, like a sport);
These natives have a primal sex drive and can become restless in love, in the sense that they can get easily bored if there’s no newness in the relationship;
Lilith in Aries craves rough, raw sex
To these natives, sex would, ideally, be quick, dirty, and aggressive
There’s a significant correlation between sex and aggression to these natives - somehow, sex after fighting may be a huge turn-on to them;
They may have a thing for domination themes in sex (either being dominated or dominating someone)
As arise dominates the head, there may be a particular liking towards hair pulling, or oral sex.
They may find people who are rough around the edges attractive - their type is the bad boy (they may even find scars attractive).
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑇𝑎𝑢𝑟𝑢𝑠:
Lilith in Taurus doesn’t like to share. They hold onto their possessions tightly;
These natives may feel torn between wanting to embody the sense of lust they feel and enjoying the goods of all 5 senses (good food, good sex, good perfume, good music…), and feeling ashamed of wanting too much, which can lead to sudden emotional outbursts, emotional disorders or even eating disorders;
These natives appreciate comfort, and they can feel anxious whenever they are out of their comfort zone;
They can’t handle change, which can lead to them staying in situations that no longer serve them, like toxic relationships, or unfulfilling jobs;
They are all about material security and stability, as they love luxury and fear poverty;
Undeveloped lilith in taurus can lead to someone who is egotistical, selfish, gets everything they want (not caring about what effect that may have on other people), and mocks people with financial needs
These people are prone to throw jealous fits;
Sex with these natives should involve all five senses: the room should smell amazing, there should be amazing quality bedding, an appetizer (like chocolate-covered strawberries, or something), and sensuous lighting. Bonus points if you use whipped cream during sex;
Taurus rules the neck area, so this has to be a focus for their partner;
Hickeys, neck kisses, neck biting, choking, or even leashes - may all be some of these natives’ kinks
Also, vocalization is IMPORTANT - you moan, groan, say what you want and what you’re gonna do (just express any sexual gratification).
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐺𝑒𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑖:
Lilith in Gemini is curious and that can be a blessing and a curse for them. These natives say no to nothing; they will try anything at least once. They want to experience it all, which may lead to them experiencing some stuff that they may hate;
These individuals are very prone to be misunderstood;
They can seem arrogant because they have a sharp tongue and they know how to use it - they can be wicked with what they say when angry;
Their strongest weapon is their mind - they can make excellent communicators, embodying the smooth-talker, but can also use that as a way to manipulate other people;
There’s something seductive in the way these natives communicate and most of them may have an attractive voice
These natives are known for giving mixed signals, having a tendency to run hot or cold, and flipping switches on people without a second thought;
These natives are indecisive and may have some trouble knowing what they want in their love life, and most of the time they harbor adoration towards someone but when it gets serious they run away, which can be associated with the non-committal energy associated with the sign of Gemini - and can lead to a deep frustration in these individuals
These natives need to be intellectually stimulated, being attracted to people who can keep up with their witty nature, and who can keep up a fluid conversation - dirty talk can be a huge turn-on to these individuals;
Gemini Lilith can appear one way, initially to prospective partners, and completely flip the switch in the bedroom ;
Gemini rules the shoulder, the arms, the hands, and the fingers, so these body parts are in focus during sex - they may like scratching or biting their partner’s shoulders or arms during sex; Also, these natives may be attracted to someone who has muscular arms/shoulders and/or tatted arms/shoulders/hands…
The hands are ruled by gemini so they may have a kink for sucking their partner’s fingers; They may also love it when their partner grabs them inappropriately in a public setting and may enjoy giving/receiving hand-jobs or being fingered/fingering their partner
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐶𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑟:
Lilith in Cancer embodies the maternal feminine power;
These individuals have a particular need to feel needed which can lead to them over-giving and not receiving anything;
Undeveloped Lilith in Cancer may dismiss their own healthy limits, overextending themselves for the sake of someone else’s comfort;
These natives suffer from separation anxiety, and their biggest fear is abandonment, which can lead to them being overly clingy and needy, invading their partner’s personal space;
You may be unable to feel anything sexual towards your partner if there’s no emotional connection beforehand;
These individuals have a calming, gentle, and soft energy to them, and they have an other-worldly ability to read other people - they can use these characteristics to emotionally manipulate their partners, using it to keep them from leaving
This soft energy is still present in the bedroom. These natives love to be taken care of during sex, but they can also read their partner easily, meaning they will know how to get their partner off by picking up on subtle hints and desires
Cancer rules the chest, the breast, and the stomach. They may like to sexualize their breast by using lingerie, accessories, and cologne/perfume. These natives may also be attracted to someone with a voluptuous breasts or a muscular chest;
Cancer Lilith may enjoy chest play, as well as licking and sucking the stomach area. Since cancer is ruled by the Moon, which is related to the motherly figure, there may also be a kink related to pregnancy
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐿𝑒𝑜:
Lilith in Leo isn’t afraid of the spotlight. This placement exudes a golden aura of charm that mesmerizes the ones around them - which can be used as a way of manipulation;
These individuals have a captivating presence. They are very attractive and they know it, and this may lead to someone with a lot of self-respect, or to someone egocentric;
This level of physical attractiveness can lead to shallow relationships, and, as these individuals tend to seek other people’s approval, they avoid digging deeper into their relationships, to keep their partner from seeing their ugly side;
These natives can’t deal with criticism, be it constructive or not, as they have a strikingly strong egos;
These natives like drama - they are not afraid of starting drama just for the fun of it. Leo is a provocative sign, so in a relationship, a Leo Lilith won’t be afraid of starting an argument just to see rile up their partner;
These individuals can be selfish in love, looking to be the center of attention in their relationship
These natives like dramatic sex. They are ferocious and passionate when it comes to sex.
Leo rules the back and shoulder, so scratching, biting, and even whipping these areas may be a turn-on for these natives;
They are also attracted to strong healthy hair, so hair pulling may be a big thing for them. They may also think that post-sex hair is attractive.
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑉𝑖𝑟𝑔𝑜:
Lilith in Virgo knows what they want and knows how to get it;
These individuals are perfectionists to the extreme and this characteristic can be reflected in their romantic relationships, manifesting as control issues and over-the-top standards;
Undeveloped Virgo Lilith may have a tendency to suppress their sexual energy and some of them might be impotent or just unable to perform sex due to the fear of failure of sex;
Lilith in Virgo is a very problematic placement as Lilith is a sign that represents functionality and balance and Lilith is a provocative, empowering asteroid - the two energies conflict;
These natives are strategic and cunning. They like to move in silence, which keeps people guessing and gives them a mysterious look;
Virgo Lilith desires someone intelligent and communicative, with whom they can have logical continuous conversations. They are also attractive to people who, just like them, are healthy and hygienic;
Developed Virgo Lilith is the definition of “lady in the streets, freak in the sheets”;
This is a placement that’s willing to experiment in bed, not having a definitive list of kinks or turn-ons;
This is a very careful and clean placement when it comes to sex, prioritizing health, by utilizing birth control, getting tested regularly, and being sexually selective. These people tend to love shower sex, fantasizing about showering with their partner.
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐿𝑖𝑏𝑟𝑎:
Lilith in Libra embodies the struggle between being the perfect, mysterious, and independent individual, as they are very charming and elegant, or the perfect partner;
This placement looks for a perfectly beautiful partner and they tend to try to look flawless as well;
An undeveloped Libra Lilith may ridicule people who are not beautiful in their eyes;
Lilith in Libra fears loneliness so they would go to any level to make peace with their partner to avoid loneliness, most of the times blaming themselves in order to put an end to any potential disagreement;
Lilith in Libra tends to be shallow in the choice of the people around them, tending to choose elite, sophisticated, and refined people as their friends. They tend to judge people by how they seem on a superficial level or by what they have;
These people tend to avoid making hard decisions and most of the time avoid making them, pushing them onto their close ones, so they’ll make those choices instead;
They like the chase and they are good at flirting, using flirtatious touches, longing gazes, and seductive words. Nothing makes them happier than winning over the unwinnable;
Libra rules the skin, butt, and lower back, these may all be a sexual focus - they may even have sexual fantasies about spanking, anal sex, and/or anal play. They tend to have attractive butts and/or be attracted to people with attractive butts;
They can also be attracted to people with beautiful skin (blemish-free and/or even-toned skin)
Touches on the butt or lower back may be a way of flirting to these individuals;
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑆𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑝𝑖𝑜:
Lilith in Scorpio is magnetic, powerful, and intense, but highly secretive;
This is a very experimental placement, which is open to kinky sex, toys, taboo topics, and fetishizing themes in sex;
Their sexuality is very apparent and other people may have an overly sexual image of these natives.
They may have had other people interested in them purely based on sex because their sexual energy is a lot of times the first thing others notice; These individuals may have felt objectified most of their lives because of the common unjustified sexual interest coming from strangers;
These natives’ feelings are either very intense or not at all - it’s all or nothing for them, and when an undeveloped scorpio lilith feels it all, it may manifest in aggression, jealousy, obsession, control, and power;
To these natives sex may be an overwhelming experience because of the emotional bond that comes with it;
Scorpio is associated with the concept of power and control; In relationships, these natives can become controlling - they like to be on top, and in control; This also applies to sex (most scorpio Liliths like to be on top)
To these individuals life can be very much compared to a game - everything is about power;
Undeveloped Scorpio Liliths can find their most significant enemy in their own obsessive and jealous tendencies, these two can be quite the monster to deal with;
Scorpio rules the genitalia and the reproductive and excretory systems, so these natives may be drawn to the size and girth of sexual organs; Also, they may have an impregnation, breeding, or excretory kink.
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑆𝑎𝑔𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑢𝑠:
Lilith in Sagittarius seeks abundance and luxury - they want it all and they want it big, be it the most exotic vacation destiny or the wildest party
They are born entertainers and they don’t mind having all eyes on them; It’s extremely hard to get these individuals to feel somewhat shy or embarrassed;
Sagittarius Liliths cannot deal with small, mundane, day-to-day experiences. Sagittarius is a placement that is known for the tendency to experiment, so lilith in this sign may lead to an excessive level of hedonism and to overindulging in “experiencing” without a limit;
Being open to new experiences, new food, new countries, and new people, these placement tends to attract dangerous people;
Being the epitome of a 'bon vivant’, these people cannot handle it when other peoples’ feelings get too deep or when others get upset with them, tending to ignore the issue, run away or get angry about it;
Nonetheless, Sagittarius Lilith is a fighter - they will be the first one to stand up for causes like gender equality and animal cruelty; Theoretically, they have the best philosophies and they stick to them - their biggest fear is meaninglessness;
This is the placement most likely to question the existential meaning of life and the paranormal world;
This is a highly promiscuous placement too, being too impulsive, brash, and bold when it comes to sex; This can manifest in them having multiple sexual partners or numerous wild sexual experiences;
Since Sagittarius rules the hips and legs, these individuals may like to highlight their legs with heels, thigh-high boots, fishnets, or garters, or they may like it when their partners wear these types of items;
This placement may also be curvier or be attracted to curvier people;
Due to the adventurous Sagittarius nature, lilith in Sagittarius may like to have sex in public settings - the idea of getting caught may be a turn-on.
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐶𝑎𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑛:
Lilith in Capricorn has a thirst for big achievements, success, and social status - they exude domineering energy
These natives may even become obsessed with the idea of power, feeling attracted to powerful people without really knowing who they are - they may fantasize about being part of a power couple
These natives understand the way the 3D world works perfectly and that’s why they thrive while maneuvering in it - they know how to go where they want to go;
Capricorn is the archetype of 'the boss’ so they may have a tendency to try and control everything and everyone around them and they may have a hard time understanding that you cannot just control people if you’re not their superior in a professional environment;
This is a highly sensual placement, having a lot of sexual energy - even though they mask it very well; Their sexual energy is not provocative or over-the-top, it’s rather sly and smooth;
Capricorn Liliths may be attracted to older or more mature people; They may also desire someone who’s in a position of power/control, or have a status about them
It’s fairly common for these natives to have fantasies such as office sex, sex with their boss, using sex to gain notoriety in their professional environment, having sex with a highly prominent figure, or gaining the upper hand in a certain situation through sex;
They may also dream of living a secret office love affair;
Capricorn rules the teeth, joints, and skeletal system, so the idea of flexibility may be a turn-on for these individuals;
There may also be kinks such as bondage, being tied up, or bending the body in difficult positions;
These natives may like receiving and giving hickeys and bites;
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝐴𝑞𝑢𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑢𝑠:
Lilith in Aquarius is the visionary rebel and anything conventional bores them;
Their most valuable asset is their freedom and they use it to always do things their way, which can lead to them feeling like an outsider more often than not (a developed and empowered aquarius lilith will feel at home anywhere tho);
These individuals may tend to try and fit into already formed groups, but most often than not they will not be accepted and this may lead them to feel ashamed of their own characteristics;
Later on in their life, these individuals tend to find other people that will accept them and be as alien-like as them - they tend to become wildly unapologetic of their own uniqueness;
This placement is the embodiment of the quote 'my way or the highway’ - they can be quite stubborn;
When it comes to sex, aquarius lilith is just as adventurous and liberal as Sagittarius or scorpio lilith - they are not afraid to explore out-of-the-box sexual fantasies or get freaky, on the other hand, they are utterly comfortable just exploring their own sexuality in its quirky, atypical kinks and fantasies;
There won’t be one single sexual fantasy for these individuals, they are willing to try anything and everything their partner wants to try; there will be a whole bunch of different stuff that excites them;
The difference between sag and aqua lilith is that aquarius lilith likes to get freaky, but preferably with a long-standing sexual partner where there’s trust and history involved;
Since Aquarius rules the ankles and the calves, Aquarius Lilith may take a lot of pride in showing off its legs or maybe heavily attracted to someone with defined legs.
𝐿𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑃𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑒𝑠:
Lilith in Pisces is the escapist daydreamer - they prefer a fantasy world to a real one;
These individuals want to be surrounded by beauty and they may try to escape the harshness of the real world through daydreams and an idealist and utopian mentality;
This placement has a hard time dealing with accountability so they may struggle with escapist tendencies such as excessive partying, excessive spending, excessive promiscuity, self-sabotaging, and even engaging in substance abuse;
Undeveloped pisces liliths are prone to addiction and may have a tendency to indulge in toxic substances like drugs to isolate themselves from the cruelness of the real world; There may also be a tendency to develop depressive habits (therapy is recommended for this placement);
A developed pisces lilith may develop into a healer, a poet, an empath, or an artist of some sort;
These individuals belong to the aesthetic of a coming-of-age movie and they tend to turn the simplest of things into dramatic experiences;
In sex, pisces lilith wants romance;
These individuals may idealize sexual experiences, turning sex into a tricky subject for them - nothing is perfect but pisces lilith will idealize everything from their sexual partners to their sexual escapades and relationships, giving sex an excessively unrealistic image in their own minds;
Pisces rules the feet and body fat so pisces lilith may have a foot fetish or be attracted to someone with a fuller curvier figure;
~ Aquarians refuse to dance to anybody else’s tune, and they rarely appreciate being trained what to think, being silenced, or being censored for what they do. They are free spirits in the sense of being impossible to tame or contain, and they can certainly be antagonistic by purposely doing the opposite of what they are told
